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 ATTENTION: Is your child being bullied, too?

Multi-System Black Belt Reveals the Peaceful Secret of How to Stop Bullying - Gossip - Even Violence- Quickly and Permanently. Find Out How Your Child Can Stop Bullies With Confidence and Grace...Gain the Admiration of Their Peers.... & Become More Popular Than They Ever Dreamed Possible.

Results in just 14 days. Guaranteed. Even if the situation seems hopeless!

 

Parents - Guardians:

Are you:

  • Worried because your child is becoming sullen and withdrawn?
  • Concerned that they’re being harassed, ostracized or threatened?
  • Afraid your child is becoming self-destructive or violent?
  • Angry that school officials are turning a blind eye or giving you the run around?
  • Heart broken because they’re shutting you out?
  • Feeling guilty that you can’t protect them?
  • Desperate for a real solution to stop bullying?

A Personal Letter From Adam Blum:

My Friend,

If you have a child between the ages of 5 and 12 who is being victimized by bullies, you’ve come to the right place.  You’ll find help here.

If you even suspect that your son or daughter being bullied, please take a few moments to read this letter. It may be critically important to their safety and well-being.

The fact is your child probably will NOT tell you that they are being targeted.  Odds are, they’ll even deny it. That’s because there’s tremendous shame in being humiliated, in getting publicly snubbed, in confessing that your friends have turned on you.

1 kid in 10 is tormented every day. Your child could be the one eating lunch by themselves – and they might be keeping it from you.

As a savvy parent, you know your kid better than anyone, and you can sense something’s wrong.
I urge you: Trust your intuition. For each horrific news story about bullying, there are grieving parents thinking, “If only I had known….”
                                                                                                                           
IT DOESN’T HAVE TO BE LIKE THIS
You love your child more than your own life.  You’d do anything in the world to protect them from harm.  You’re furious that anyone would injure your baby. I understand exactly how you feel

 FRUSTRATED  

If you’ve tried everything to get your child some peace, and are at the end of your rope because nothing has worked, I can assure you – it’s not your fault. Because everything you’ve been lead to believe about how to stop bullying doesn't work..

There’s a colossal industry that’s grown around the anti-bullying movement.  Its big business, and politicians, school boards, and the most popular “gurus” are all in on it. They’ve been lying through their teeth to you to keep the money circulating.

Let me tell you something they don’t want you to know:  Anti Bullying laws don’t stop bullying!  In America, 45 states have enacted them and nothing has changed one iota. While I’m at it here’s another thing they’re trying to hush-up: School anti-bullying programs are a complete failure. In fact, scientific research suggests they often make the problems worse!  You can however, and easily, learn how to stop a bully.

*I’ve actually drawn a lot of fire for exposing this scam, but I couldn’t care less*


IT’S GOING TO TAKE MORE THAN HUGS AND COMFORTING WORDS TO MAKE THINGS BETTER

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"... The Turning Point in My Life..."

charles green, got bullied
"I don’t know if you remember me, but I trained with you 17 years ago. Last night, after dinner, I was relaxing with my wife and son, and got to thinking about how blessed I am. At that moment, I decided to look you up and tell you what a huge impact you made in my life..

My life was pretty bleak when I started taking your class.  I was 9 years old, and I was getting picked on all the time.  There were a  couple of kids that pretty much tortured me  every single day. Mostly it was name calling- sometimes they got physical. Even my regular friends started to avoid me as if I had a contagious disease.

Ignoring them didn’t work. And it wasn’t like I could avoid them- we all lived in the same town and went to the same school!

From the moment I woke up, my stomach would twist into knots.  On the way home from school, I’d be burning with humiliation and rage.  At night, I’d lay awake, reliving the day’s  traumas.

“Tattling” to my parents was out of the question.  But when I came home with my eye swollen half shut, my mother interrogated me until the truth came spilling out. I’ll never forget the pain in her face when she found out her ‘baby’ was a social outcast and a punching bag…

I was in 5th grade.  I hated myself and I hated my life.

Then I started training with you.  That was literally the turning point in my life.

You taught me about integrity, courage, modesty, persistence, discipline... but for me, the most important lesson was about self-control.  Very quickly, kids recognized that something had changed and they stopped bothering  me. There were a few occasions when I had to defend myself, which I did easily. It boggles my mind how I went from “total reject” to “cool and popular” almost overnight.

Even though I only trained with you for a year and a half before my family moved, the lessons I learned from you are with me to this day. And I’ll pass those lessons on to my son, so he’ll never have to go through what I did.

From my family to yours, thank you. "

Charles Green
Philadelphia, PA

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"...Fantastic..."

"Adam, I just reviewed your program and it’s fantastic.  The  things I like most: 1) It stops the problems at the source  2)  it shows kids how to successfully get rid of bullies on their own, while simultaneously giving parents a clear-cut plan of intervention if necessary 3) you explain everything in a simple, engaging and often entertaining way  4) the “Four Magic Phrases” alone is worth the price of the course.

Any one who puts this information into practice will absolutely get positive results."


-Ira Roth
NYPD Detective(ret.),
Youth Substance Abuse Clinician II ( Southwest Florida Addiction Services )

 

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"Outstanding"

"I've just reviewed The Total Bully Solution.  From a legal perspective, it is well grounded and prudent.
Every parent should get this course - It's outstanding."


-Philip Nadler, Esq.

Retired Superior Court Judge, New Jersey
Practicing Member American Bar Association since 1949.

 

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Adam Blum Bullying Expert

WHY SHOULD YOU LISTEN TO ME?

My name is Adam Blum

I’m a multi-system black belt.  For almost 3 decades I’ve been studying and teaching some of the world’s most effective combat arts as well as internal  internal disciplines such as energy development and meditation.

I have a degree in interpersonal communications with a concentration in psychology.

Some of the web’s most prestigious sites have published my articles, commentary and advice on how to stop bullying.

 

I have a proven track record of success. Over the course of my professional career, I’ve helped hundreds of children achieve true confidence (I’m known as the ‘go-to guy’ for the tough cases)
And I understand what your child is going through –Because I went through it myself! 

I was a sick kid... painfully frail, emotionally sensitive... and an easy target for my more predatory peers.   That is, until I discovered the secret...that stopped my tormentors in their tracks  (I’ll share that powerful trick with you and many more)

THE REVOLUTIONARY SYSTEM THAT STOPS BULLYING NOW AND PERMENANTLY
The Total Bully Solution is a responsible blend of peaceful psychological tactics, enriching principals of personal development and fundamental self-defense skills.  Every aspect has been field tested and proven effective.  

Using an  interdisciplinary, 3-phase  approach,  I will teach you … step-by-step… the little known secrets that will give them the edge in every situation – they’ll learn how they can defeat bullies easily and never be bothered by them again.

Your child will learn to conclusively banish the entire spectrum of social cruelty,  from name-calling, vicious gossip, & intimidation, to physical conflict.  This course is comprehensive, flexible and  fully customizable to fit your child’s unique situation.

Imagine your child brimming with confidence. Relaxed.  Standing a little taller.  Laughing more.  Making new friends.  Picture them looking forward to school and getting excellent grades. Radiating joy in every smile. Relishing their life again.


In just two short weeks, your child could be jumping into each day with enthusiasm.  Free of hassles and enjoying the respect of their peers.  They’ll be sleeping better at night, and so will you, knowing that they’re happy and secure once you know how to stop bullying for good.

You are about to learn:
  • How to detect the signs and symptoms of bullying your child might be trying to hide (pg 9)
  • Uncover why bullies are picking on your kid in the first place. (Remove the cause, end the problem!) pg. 23
  • Employ the Irresistible Power of Operant Conditioning to vanquish bullies without throwing a single punch! *It’s so incredibly effective because it’s so subtle -the bully won't even realize what's happening to him!
  • Capitalize  the “Mirror Effect”  to develop charisma and win loyal friends. (pg. 35)
  • What your child should never say to a bully (pg. 16)
  • Efficiently dealing with rumors and gossip with “verbal Aikido” (pg. 30)
  • Role-plays that prepare your child for real-world situations

 The MOST AUTHORATITIVE children’s self-defense course available online.
The best part – you don’t need any experience at all to teach it to your child!

  • What Sir Isaac Newton did in elementary school that completely conquered his bully, elevated his social status and paved the way for his academic supremacy. (It only took moments, and your child can do it too!) pg. 37
  • The 6 Essential Rules of Force (pg. 40)
  • How to discover your child’s “Kingdom of Excellence”, and why it’s so vital (pg. 41)
  • An 11-point coaching guide (tips and tricks that the pro’s use to skyrocket maximum performance)
  • Transforming fear from chilling paralysis into dynamic energy

Ways to stop bullying and make sure they NEVER COME BACK


  • 15 points to polish courtesy (pg. 78)
  • 8 ways to nurture empathy and kindness (pg. 81)
  • Cultivating character and virtue (pg. 83)
  • Promoting self-discipline and self-control
  • Strengthening assertiveness (pg. 77)
  • Making good decisions – the 18 Questions of Clarity (pg. 86)
  • A 5 point plan that ignites appreciation and joy every day

LET ME ASK YOU A SERIOUS QUESTION
If you had a crystal ball, and could see an imminent tragedy looming over your child…

and making just one simple decision today would ensure them a chance to reach their full potential, to experience love, prosperity and triumph  …  What would you do?

 

“… Kudos!...”

"Just a quick note of appreciation.
Your program really works. Dylan seems like a different kid. It’s like the dark cloud over his head has finally vanished. His grades are better, he has finally joined the scouts..."

S.D.
Valdosta, GA

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“... I Can’t Thank You Enough...”

"My 7-year old daughter had been excited to start the new school year, but after a few weeks, the downturn in her attitude became concerning. She eventually confided that she was being targeted by the “mean girl” clique in her class; they were calling her names, spreading rumors, and even turning her old friends against her. My husband and I soon arranged for a parent-teacher conference, where we were assured the situation would be “monitored closely”. Predictably, things got worse over the next 2 months – until we ordered your program.


The turn around started in about 4 days and a week later, our daughter seemed to have fallen off the “mean girls” radar completely. I can’t thank you enough."


K.S.,

Tempe, AZ
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"...Like Night And Day ..."

"Sensei Blum - You were right about everything. My son’s school actually has an anti-bully program and it’s a joke. Jeremy is a sweet kid, smart too, and he wouldn’t hurt a fly – yet his classmates were ganging up on him. It got to the point where he was coming home in tears at least once a week. He just didn't know how to stop the bullying.

After getting your program I admit I was surprised to learn the real reason he was being targeted- but after thinking about it, it did ring true. So we did the role-plays, reviewed the checklist over and over and then put it to the test.
 It didn’t take long before your method of “psychological jiu jitsu” had the desired effect and the teasing eased up. The overall change in my son’s attitude is like night and day. Thank you so much for your help."

~Chris H.

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“... Easy to Follow...”

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"I'm a single mom and have never thrown a punch in my life but the lesson plans were so well explained and easy to follow it was easy to teach my daughter the core skills she needs to protect herself.."

~Sherrie M

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Take a peek at what you get:

 

Total Bully Solution Master Text Book

Total Bully Solution “Master Text” Book...This is the heart of the program.  87  pages of pure useable content.  It includes:

  • The step by step process for getting bullies out of your child’s life and making sure they never come back.
  • 14 ways to initiate a meaningful conversation with your child and get them to open up
  • The surefire formula that will allow your child to instantly gain control of their emotions.
  • The guide to children’s self-defense- including simple moves you can teach your son or daughter to fend off an attack.
  • How to deal with the bully's parents, school authorities and police so you can get them on your side and enlist their help.   You will have them working with you, rather than against you.
  • Ways to rebuild your child’s self-confidence and help him learn the social skills to make new friends.

Total Bully Solution video series

Total Bully Solution video series:  This is a set of 22 easy to follow stop bullying now videos which show exactly how to implement the strategies explained in the ebook.  Learn the correct way to use your voice to resolve conflict, see precisely how to teach the physical skills that stops bullies in their tracks..

Total Bully Solution student workbook

Total Bully Solution  student workbook:  This allows your child to take ownership of their new abilities, and summarizes the most important parts of the Master Text.  It also has space for your child to make notes and chart their own progress. This is the meat of how to stop a bully.


bonus - bullying template letters
Official Communications: These letter templates contain the proper language to use when corresponding with school authorities. Just enter your information and you’re good to go. Leave no doubts about being heard and understood by those in authority.

bonus Mindfulness Meditation...Your Child's Secret Weapon Against Bullie
Mindfulness Meditation...Your Child's Secret Weapon Against Bullies:   This is one of the best ways to stop bullying. When your child is stressed, or frightened the most important thing is to stay centered. This report helps you teach him/her how to use a simple and fun form of meditation to keep calm and behave rationally.

bonus Protecting Students From Harassment and Hate Crimes
Protecting Students From Harassment and Hate Crimes:  A 169 page report put out by the US Department of Education . This is the perfect complement to the letters to school administrators – the actual Federal Guidelines.  Bureaucrats tremble when they realize you’ve done your homework and know they aren’t in compliance with the law.

bonus Revised Sexual Harassment Guide
Revised Sexual Harassment Guide:   Provides guidance from the Dept of Education to schools. It describes the schools responsibilities regarding sexual harassment.  Don’t allow anyone to minimize your concerns with lame excuses about “kids being kids”. 

Special Report- How To Escape From A Headlock:   Kids tussling on the playground or combatants locked in a life and death struggle, this is possibly the most common (and potentially dangerous) hold.  This report will teach you how to escape and avoid injury.  Priceless information!

To Get The Total Bully Solution
Buy The Total Bully Solution
ALL OF THIS FOR
ONLY $97

CLICK HERE TO PURCHASE

 

 

BETTER THAN 100% MONEY BACK GUARANTEE

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Try this program for a full 60 days. Use the information, role-plays, the psychological strategies, professional coaching tips, & go through the training with your son or daughter for 2 entire months.
 If you are anything other than absolutely thrilled, just send me an email and I’ll refund your entire purchase price. No questions asked. You keep the program. You can even keep the bonuses, too.


Quite simply, I’m certain you’ll achieve positive, life changing results. If you don’t feel as if I’ve Over Delivered, I don’t want your money.
 My reputation is too important.

 The burden to deliver is completely on me. 
  Fair enough?

 

I’ve Done The Hard Part For You
You don’t have to toil for thousands of hours learning martial arts, or sift through endless
volumes of information separating fact from fiction. All you have to do is follow the recipe. You’ll get every trick in the book.  The Total Bully Solution gives you everything you need to stop bullying now- plus much more.


It’s Like Your Child Having Their Own Personal Body Guard, 24/7!
 Obviously, I can’t be there in person, but the system I’ve perfected over years works for boys and girls, empowering them to neutralize overt hostility as well as devious relational aggression.
Your child will be able to stop bullying wherever it shows up – the bus stop, at school, in the mall, at the park, even cyberspace.
I will team up with you.  Together, we will walk through a series of easy to follow lessons. We will review exactly what to do, how to do it, what to say and how to say it. This bullying video program gives your child the tools they need to handle themselves when you are not there to protect them.

 

WARNING:

  • This is NOT a mishmash of the ‘same old same old’.  Most of the “conventional wisdom” about how to stop bullying which is garbage, and yes, many so-called experts are very upset  about what I reveal.
  • This is NOT a magic pill.  Like all good things, it requires  a little effort. 
  • This is NOT the “cheapest” product on the market, but it IS the BEST. Anyone looking to economize on their child’s mental and physical health should look elsewhere.


Honestly: If you DON’T take advantage of this offer, what’s your alternative?

Enroll your child in Martial Arts classes? Under the best circumstances, in a good academy with a qualified coach, it takes months (sometimes years) to develop any functional skills.  More importantly, this path does nothing to address the root of the problem- the reasons why your child is being bullied in the first place.
Average Monthly Tuition: -$75 / month + uniform, equipment and testing fees X  one year contract = $1,200


Therapy?  While therapy can be very valuable, it requires an open ended commitment.  IF you find the right therapist, IF your child is open to treatment, THEN after several YEARS, they might eventually come to terms with their depression, and shame. There are lots of ways to stop bullying. Some are better than others.
Average Cost: Starts at $150 per 45 minute session  X two sessions per week X 50 weeks = $15,000 per year (let’s hope your insurance covers some of it)


Think About It: You Can Spend A Fortune And Endure Months (Or Years) Of Frustration Waiting For Someone Else To Fix The Problem. Or You Can Do It Yourself And Do It Right.
 I‘ll Show You The Shortcut -- This is how to stop a bully..

I GENUINELY CARE
If your child is being victimized, the damage being done now is setting the tone for the rest of their lives.   If you sit on the fence another day, you’re sentencing your kid to another day of misery.


Like you, I want your child to be safe and happy sooner rather than later.

Only one of two things can happen right now. We join forces or you’ll go it alone.

  Either we partner up and put a stop to the potentially devastating harassment your child is suffering, and stop bullying now, or you can look for the answers elsewhere. You can make a small investment now, or risk having your child pay the price later. The choice is entirely up to you.

The longer you “think about it”, the longer your kid endures soul-crushing despair.

You’re 9/10th’s of the way to getting them the relief they need. Just click the link,  go to the secure order page and you’ll receive delivery in moments.

Weigh the relatively small investment you’ll make today against the incalculably higher cost of doing nothing.

All you have to do is click here for the best way to stop bullying.

 

Be Excellent,

Bullying Expert
     Adam Blum


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Remember – Good intentions will not heal your child’s wounds. They’re relying on you to take action.  


PPS
In the unlikely event you are anything other than completely satisfied, you’re fully protected by the Better Than 100% Money Back Guarantee. Stop the bullying now.


PPPS
I’m looking forward to hearing YOUR success story!

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